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24 Dec 2014


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20 Dec 2014

Shopping trip with philip. It will be deliciously wicked.



Philip has wanted to accompany me on a shopping trip for quite some time. What better time than Christmas time. The shops are packed, people rushing around - the ideal time to humiliate on mass.

Philip assumes he will just be carrying my shopping. He has no idea what I have planned for him.Yes, he will carry my heavy shopping bags - there is much Christmas shopping to be done, lots of Christmas presents and I don't want to be distracted by carrying any of it. Along with carrying my shopping, he will be paying for them with our usual agreed tribute. Sounds quite tame so far. He must carry the agreed tribute in a very large glittery Hello Kitty pink purse - which he will produce during every transaction in every shop. It must be placed in plain view of all the cashiers and the other customers. He must then ask the cashier if they like his purse, pay for the items and place the change in the purse.
He will also be wearing his electric dog collar under his scarf.

While I am browsing the shops, he is to follow me from a distance of 4 meters. At any time I may remotely activate his collar. This will amuse me no end as the reaction of those around will be quite interesting. If any of you know the collar (picture), you will be aware that it can be programmed with different electrical strengths and remotely activated.

Oh, and before I forget, he will also be wearing one of my T shirts over all his clothes.




I think I'll stop for a spot of lunch. Philip will sit at a table away from me - I can observe him. I will order his food. A selection of desert and mains. He will mix them together and eat them as one dish. I will also zap him a few times with his collar while he is eating. I'm sure that will also amuse me greatly.

This is going to be a fun 2 hour excursion.






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18 Dec 2014

From a Sadist to a Masochist

SADIST

I'd never hurt you with the intention
Of bringing you any form of harm.
I inflict this pain upon your flesh
With purpose, integrity, and love.

With great patience and great care
I present my tools before you.
A whip here, a flog there,
All to bring you to that state

Of ecstasy,
Of catharsis.

I bring this pain to heal
Not just for you, but me as well.
Because I'd be lying if I said
I do this with no story to tell.

Falling into rhythm,
My striking is now heavy,
And those long sought tears
Are now streaming down your face.

I'm happy I could bring you here,
I'm happy you have taught me
That to hurt, in all forms, is human
And that pain can be used as a tool

To be intimate,
To heal.


~ Nero Knight








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10 Dec 2014

Mass ‘face-sitting’ planned to protest UK porn laws: #PornProtest

I WILL BE ATTENDING, SO, IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO JOIN ME, GET IN TOUCH



That’s one way to get your government to shut up.

A mass “face-sitting” demonstration is being planned in London to protest a new set of porn laws in the UK.

Hundreds are expected to gather on Friday outside Parliament, where demonstrators will simulate sex acts with each other and sing along to Monty Python’s “Sit On My Face.”

The #PornProtest is a response to a new set of restrictions placed on pornography filmed and produced inside the UK. (The laws do not affect what programming UK citizens choose to watch.)

As of Dec. 1, strangulation, whipping and face-sitting were banned on the grounds that they were “potentially life-threatening.”

Charlotte Rose, the protest organizer and Britain’s 2013 Sex Worker of the Year, told Buzzfeed that the restrictions are outrageous. “How is it perfectly okay for a man to choke a woman with his penis in her mouth, yet we can’t enjoy cunnilingus through face-sitting?”

A host of other sex acts, including urination (or “water sports”) and spanking, were also banned.

The law appears to censor specifically the BDSM genre, and has been criticized for being sexist. “Personal liberty is what we are fighting for on Friday,” Rose told London 24.

The protest will include serious speeches from various organizations, with the face-sitting taking place at the end. “It’s just a bit of ridiculous fun to show the ridiculousness of these laws,” Rose told the Telegraph.



In order to calm concerns that face-sitting is “life-threatening,” Rose joked on the protest’s Facebook page that there will be “facial color charts for health and safety to ensure no one is being suffocated.”


Protest outside parliament against sexist porn law! - old palace yard | Facebook



FRIDAY 12TH DECEMBER @12 NOON - OLD PALACE YARD, HOUSES OF PARLIMENT.



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8 Dec 2014

Anti-SM and pro-sex Feminism - What do you think?


Below is an extract from Emma Turley's BDSM psychology and sexuality thesis submitted to the University of Huddersfield - FULL THESIS HERE 

It describes very well the views of both 'anti-s&m feminists' and the 'pro-sex feminists'. Both sides make interesting points, although I do not agree with some or even understand how they came to their conclusions. This extract is a good place to start before moving on to what the 'anti-S&M feminists' actually feel regarding S&M.

3 Dec 2014

Below is the new R18 section from The official BBFC Guidelines: 

By the way.... A child of 12 can go into a bookshop and BUY the 50 shades of Gray BOOK! 

The R18 category is a special and legally-restricted classification primarily for explicit works of consenting sex or strong fetish material involving adults. Films may only be shown to adults in specially licensed cinemas, and video works may be supplied to adults only in licensed sex shops. R18 video works may not be supplied by mail order.

The following content is not acceptable:

material which is in breach of the criminal law, including material judged to be obscene under the
current interpretation of the Obscene Publications Act 1959 (see Annexe)
material (including dialogue) likely to encourage an interest in sexually abusive activity which may include adults role-playing as non-adults
the portrayal of sexual activity which involves real or apparent lack of consent. Any form of hysical restraint which prevents participants from indicating a withdrawal of consent
the infliction of pain or acts which may cause lasting physical harm, whether real or (in a sexual context) simulated. Some allowance may be made for moderate, non-abusive, consensual activity
penetration by any object associated with violence or likely to cause physical harm
sexual threats, humiliation or abuse which do not form part of a clearly consenting role-playing  game. Strong physical or verbal abuse, even if consensual, is unlikely to be acceptable These Guidelines will be applied to the same standard regardless of sexual orientation of the activity portrayed.

British porn quietly censored......

Pornography produced in the UK was quietly censored today through an amendment to the 2003 Communications Act, and the measures appear to take aim at female pleasure.

The Audiovisual Media Services Regulations 2014 requires that video-on-demand (VoD) online porn now adhere to the same guidelines laid out for DVD sex shop-type porn by the British Board of Film Censors (BBFC).
Seemingly arbitrarily deciding what is nice sex and what is not nice sex, the board's ruling on 'content that is not acceptable' (p.23) effectively bans the following acts from being depicted by British pornography producers:

26 Nov 2014

NO EXCUSES: There is a list for every budget.

AMAZON WISHLIST: NO EXCUSES: There is a list for every budget!

Oh of course I love presents. Who doesn't? A delightful session is by far a super gift, but, if you would like to supplement your physical servitude with additional offerings (which makes a good first impression) please do so. For those of you wishing to bring an additional gift when visiting me, here are a few ideas.I must stress that these gifts are absolutely non-compulsory. NO EXCUSES: There is a list for every budget!






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Prudery and Feminism

I feel very strongly about this topic: Feminists who think they know what is best for me know nothing.


There's a New Prudery in Feminism and I Hate It | VICE | United Kingdom




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24 Nov 2014

A practical system of reality checks within S&M. What it means to have Safety, Sanity & Consent.


Many times I have encountered clients / submissives who come to me damaged and fearful. One may assume that the submissive has been damaged by personal experiences, social outcasting, relationship failure or an aspect separate to the BDSM lifestyle. Your assumptions would be incorrect. Most, if not all of my damaged submissives are those damaged by a Top/ Dominant. Usually a Mistress with little practical experience, learned and practiced skills, no understanding of the psychology of BDSM and definitely no understanding of safe, sane & consensual.


  1. SM practitioners must strive to make their SM Safe
  2. SM practitioners must strive to make their living sane.
  3. Obtain consent, and respect the limits and of others.


Most know the basic 3 rules of SSC within S&M. But within these rules are subtle difficulties. Definitionsclarity and a true understanding of what SSC actually means is needed to make these rules work.

Anyone wishing to enter the BDSM realm, whether as a submissive or a Dominant, should make themselves familiar with the proposal below, which outlines a more indepth understanding of what Safe, Sane & Consensual ACTUALLY should mean. 

Below is a proposed definition of SSC (courtesy of LeatherRoses) which ALL tops should read, understand and practice within their S&M.


24 Oct 2014

Permission from client to record sessions - Video / audio / photo

DOWNLOAD PDF HERE

Recording A Session - Permissions



The following type(s) of recording will be permitted during this session:


p Still Photography

p Video

p Audio


The following use recording(s) will be produced during this session:


p Commercial Public Distribution

p Non-Commercial Public Distribution

p Commercial Private Distribution

p Non-Commercial Private Distribution

p Destroyed upon completion of the session

p None


The following post-production is required prior to release for specified use:


p Obliteration of identifiable features

p Approval of post-production product by participants

p Duplication of all original recordings for participant(s) personal use

p None


Ownership and copyright of all session recording(s) are hereby assigned to the following person(s) with interests and / or restrictions as
annotated:

________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________

Session Client Medical History - A form to record health / wellbeing.

LINK TO DOWNLOAD


Medical History


Name:


Last STD Test: : ____ _____________ , 20 ___


Do you have a Trichomonas or Yeast Infection?


Yes No


Have you tested Herpes 1 or 2 positive?


Yes No


Have you tested HIV positive?


Yes No


Do you have any current symptoms or historical medical problems involving:


Heart

Liver

Lungs

Kidneys

Bladder, Colon or Rectum

Dental


Neck or Spinal Cord

Bones or Joints

Muscles

Mucus Membranes Nasal, Oral, Genital

Psychological

Other: ___________________________


Do you have current symptoms or a medical history of:


Hyperventilation

Seizures

Dizzy Spells

Diabetes


High Blood Pressure

Fainting

Asthma

Other: ___________________________


Do you wear contact lenses or prescription glasses?


Yes No


Do you suffer from any fears or phobias?

If so, please describe:

________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________


Yes No


Do you have any surgical implants?

If so, please describe:

________________________________________________________________


Yes No


Do you have any piercings of your:


Ear(s)

Nose

Eyebrow(s)

Tongue


Nipple(s)

Navel

Genitals

Other: ______________________________


Are you currently taking any of the following over-the-counter medications:


Aspirin

Anti-Inflammatory

Antihistamine


Decongestant

Expectorant

Other: ______________________________


List all prescription medications you currently take:


_______________________________________

_______________________________________

_______________________________________

_______________________________________


Known Allergies including tapes and contraceptives:


_______________________________________

_______________________________________

_______________________________________

_______________________________________


In case of emergency notify: _____________________________________________________________________








23 Oct 2014

When you know better and you still do it - becoming a cynical masochist.




There are occasions when I think I become a masochist. Once in a while I will go against my better judgement just so I can tell myself 'I told you!'. My latest I told you moment concluded this evening. But it actually began a few weeks ago with the arrival of an email.

My inbox usually consists of 60% spam, 20% timewasters, 10 % genuine enquiries and 10% known submissives. One email caught my attention.

15 Oct 2014

UPCOMING #BDSM #FETISH #ALT EVENTS around london

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14 Oct 2014

BDSM Unveiled: When Your Submissive Suffers from Clinical Depression

Structure is incredibly useful for persons suffering with depression. Setting clear, attainable daily tasks (even if your dynamic is long distance) can do a lot to keep a depressed mood from becoming inability to get out of bed. In the worst times, it may have to be something as simple as "You must go to work 4 days out of 5 every week. You must take a shower every other day at 10:30pm." Simple, everyday tasks can be easier to tolerate if they're turned into power dynamic chores, rather than just one more thing they have to try to manage on their own. Professional programs force clients to live by strict rules about when they wake up, when they eat, when they shower, etc, and having those things become automated means that they don't have to make any decisions about it.

10 Oct 2014

The wannabe Dom's complaint

My dearest friend TawnyTrickster on Fetlife wrote this little article on his wall posts - and I loved it... I hope you enjoy it and Join him on Fetlife.

Original post: LINK HERE



Dear Fetlife,

 I joined your site over a week ago and I wish to point out my total dissatisfaction; I haven’t had any sex yet at all.

 I know just what you’re going to say but I fail to see why having no photos and no information on my profile should make any difference. I know for a fact others are the same yet they regularly inform me they’re getting their end away night after night.

 I joined and posted in at least half a dozen groups. My advert was short and to the point, “Kneel before me slut and suck my cock.” What’s not understandable about that? Not a single reply let alone a chance to fool around with a sweet young gal.

 I listed myself as a Dom (and what is it with all this weird capitalisation?) as I’m a man so obviously I can’t be anything else. Why do the subs not submit to me? Surely I should be inundated with offers of rumpy-pumpy? I’d have expected all the ladies to be begging me to slip them a hot beef injection? Nada.

 I see numerous old, short, fat and bald guys listed as playing with gorgeous girls half their age; how do they do that? Come on ladies, I’m a much better bet for a bit of banging! I’m young, fit, I’ll even send you pics of my cock to impress the hell out of you; what better invite could you receive for some jiggery-pokery?

 This is a place where I can find someone to dance the buttocks jig with right? Get some action going? Dip the wick? Come on you bitches, help a guy hit a home run. There must be someone out there as desperate as I am. Drop me a line here, I’ll even come to your place – my mom doesn’t like me having girls over anyway – and I can fill your juicebox for you with my creamy love liquid.

 Oh, so you want me to actually learn about this lifestyle, put some effort into it… Next you’ll want me to go on a voyage of self-discovery. I’m 19 years old FFS! I know what I want. Sheesh, all this just to get an opportunity to introduce the captain to his pie! Well I did read some of the stuff on here and it’s damn hot in places, but I’m more of a doer than a writer myself; I prefer to take a tumble in the hay over having to take the time and trouble to explain my thoughts and feelings to anyone.

 So I guess as I’m not having any luck with dunking my love muscle this maybe isn’t the place for me after all. I’m off to find some sleazy dating sites where I don’t have to pretend to be into the whole BDSM thing to get laid.

 Yours,

 A frustrated wannabe

9 Oct 2014

QUESTION: What is the evolutionary basis for some humans liking bondage/S&M?

ANSWERS

(Add your own in comments)

BDSM is a technique to allow you to achieve reproductive success. In animals, normally a dominant partner is the one to spread his or her genes, so it makes sense to be attracted to dominance as you are mating with the head of the group.


In contrast, if you are a low ranking member, one of the few ways you may be able to become attractive to someone else is to make them feel powerful and in control.


BDSM is an extreme manifestation of those urges.


8 Oct 2014

A typology for understanding sexual variation


A typology for understanding sexual variation


The standard model of sex and gender is extremely simple:

Any person who has a female body is a woman. But that is not all:
1.    She feels that she is a woman
2.    She thinks like a woman (whatever that is supposed to mean)
3.    She is attracted to men

The only complexity most people try to handle these days is item number 3: Sexual orientation. More and more seem to agree that same-sex sex is OK, and therefore add sexual orientation as a second dimension to the model.


6 Oct 2014

BDSM in the Writer’s Mind


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For a little amusement, something to make you smile. 


BDSM in the Writer’s Mind


"After watching Chris dig his belongings out of the dumpster and haul them up four flights of stairs, I wondered how sadistic we, the muses, could possibly be. I’m teasing, he only had to haul it up two flights.

Sensuous Caning. SETUP, WARM-UP TECHNIQUE. (#SensualCaning)

Author: Conrad Hodson
© 1997, 1998

INTRODUCTION

Canes have a deserved reputation as The Victorian Terror Weapon.  To most submissives, they mean severe punishment; to sensation-seeking S/M bottoms, overload.  If we have care and patience, however, canes can be used in a loving and sensuous way.  The very stiffness of a good cane, that makes a hard stroke so intense, allows the lightest taps to be given with perfect control.  And a light canestroke is easy to aim, unlike a flexible whip that sags and flops at low power.  In the kind of sensuous play I'm describing here, light strokes are far more prevalent and important than heavy ones.

Practice makes perfect

Resulting form the lack of effectiveness in work while wearing shackles, I did promise Mistress to practice more at home when I have time an...