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7 Jan 2015

In defence of paying for a Dominatrix

"As a professional dominatrix, I'm often drenched by two firehoses of moral invective. One torrent comes from some fellow kinksters, saying that ours is an art to be practised for love, not money; moralists, who say that sex and fetish are unimportant and vulgar, point the other. I feel it is time to speak up about my work's necessity, and about its joy and beauty. Sex is a human need, and kink can be a meaningful part of the sexual spectrum. We sex workers turn the erotic into a humane and powerful art.

17 Jul 2014

Welcome to Sex Societies Istanbul


East meets West in Istanbul. You'll find hookers from Europe and Arabia willing to have a good time.

Turkey attracts huge numbers of female European sex tourists. The number one destination is Antalya which has its own international airport.

The Taksim Square area in Istanbul, where many hotels are, has a lot of bars and a vibrant street scene with hookers, gays and transgenders.

Prostitution and brothels are legal here.

Sex toys are sold openly in shops and in the Muslim world's first online Halal adult toy shop.

If you are consumed with nostalgia for the days of rowdy ports, Istanbul's sex street for sailors is still working with women standing in windows.
Warning! Robbery at knife point happens in the streets here. Pickpockets are hard at work too.

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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) rights in Turkey


Why does the LGBT community face discrimination in Turkish society?

How can we decrease discrimination and harassment towards LGBT people in Turkey?

That being said, even though LGBT people are becoming stronger and more visible in Turkey, they are still facing violence, attacks, abuse and discrimination on a daily basis. Honor crimes against LGBT are believed to be a way of keeping the ‘honor’ of the family intact. Kaos GL, a Turkish LGBT rights organization, tracked 16 “hate crime” murders of gay men and transsexual people in Turkey in 2010 alone.

Homofin, is a herbal treatment, which claims to influence hormones. The manufacturer states: ‘It is now up to you to be or not to be a homosexual”. Homofin’s site even encourages mothers, who suspect their sons are gay, to buy these capsules and secretly dissolve the drug in their food. The government has yet to take any legal action to get this unethical, unscientific drug off the market.

In addition, police officers regularly arrest LGBT people on the accusation of prostitution. Sexual orientation or gender identity is often used as a basis for criminal penalties, in particular executions, arrests or detention. Critics say these actions are a way of putting pressure on the LGBT community. Most LGBT people that have experienced such incidents do not report this misconduct; they know that those responsible will never be punished.

To this day, there are many obstacles LGBT activists face on social networking sites and the internet in general. One example is that websites of LGBT associations are regularly hacked by religious groups.

While the government plays dumb, the fundamental rights of LGBT people are being violated, especially their right to private life. Homosexuals are increasingly targeted, also in hate speeches made by government officials. In 2010, Selma Aliye Kavaf, the Minister for Women and Family, classified homosexuality as a biological disorder and a disease which needed to be cured. Further, in response to the question ‘when Turkey is going to have openly gay ministers’ the mayor of Ankara, Ibrahim Melih Gokcek stated ‘ if god willing (insallah) in our country there are no gay and will never be’ when he was asked ‘when Turkey is going to have openly gay ministers’. Even more so, the fact that Prime minister Erdogan has never mentioned homosexuality or LGBT people during his service is a clear sign that the government should be blamed for the violence and harassment against LGBT people; by being passive, the government clearly shows their toleration of homophobic and transphobic attitudes.

Moving forward, The Universal Declaration which was adopted by the UN General Assembly on December 10th 1948 passed with a vote of 48 in favor (Turkey being one of them), zero against and eight abstentions. Article 1 of the Universal Declaration states that ‘all human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood’. However, the rights of LGBT people are ignored and not mentioned in the Turkish constitution’s prohibition of discrimination or the social and civil rights. (http://www.un.org/en/documents/udhr/)

Meanwhile, LGBT groups are pushing their agenda forward in order to include protection against gender/sexual orientation discrimination in the Turkish Constitution and have some support from outside the LGBT community. The LGBT activists campaign for equality before law.

On the 30th of June 2013, the gay pride parade attracted almost 100.000 people. This was seen as a positive development by LGBT activists. (http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/01/world/europe/protests-squelched-gay-rights-march-brings-many-in-turkey-back-to-the-streets.html?_r=2& )

On the other hand, Gezi resistance which started on 27th May 2013, was an anti-government struggle against injustice and cruel and inhuman intervention of the Turkish police. The protesters demanded freedom of the press and freedom of expression, the removal of all barriers between the citizens and their right to education and health service, as well as protesting against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.. During the Gezi struggle, LGBT people got a chance to show that they are normal and harmless human beings, and do not warrant that people are afraid of them. Gezi remains an event that has sent a clear message to everyone : ‘the struggle of the people in Gezi Park was a battle for democracy and rights for all’.(http://roarmag.org/2014/01/gezi-ottoman-turkish-nationalism/)

A momentous decision was taken when People’s Democratic Party (HDP) freshly nominated five LGBT activists. Furthermore, the Republican People’s Party member and also LGBT activist Öykü Evren Sözen has announced her candidacy once again from Bursa Osmangazi district city. Another big step was made when Can Cavusoglu, an openly gay independent candidate, publicly announced that he is running to become a mayor in Giresun’s district of Bulancak in the March 2014 local election. He declares himself gay, activist, writer, thinker, painter humanist and women’s rights activist. (http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/hdp-pledges-diversity-with-its-party-assembly.aspx?pageID=238&nid=57005)

Being Gay, bisexual or transsexual is seen as an “illness” by religious groups. Hate crime is a daily reality throughout Turkey. Islam being the dominant religion in Turkey is one of the reasons why there are anti-gay actions. Religious clerics state that homosexuality is a test. If you are not able to stand the temptation, you will go to hell. If you resist, you will be pardoned and go to heaven.  In Turkey, there are many religious people who believe that Islam’s position regarding LGBT people would be to apply the death penalty (http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/321419/pinoyabroad/worldfeatures/gay-muslims-in-turkey-torn-between-religion-and-sexuality)


To conclude, the government in Turkey has to introduce a new constitution containing greater human rights protection.  An anti-discrimination law to protect LGBT is a necessity. In this way, the discrimination in society will not only decrease but will also reduce the long-established judicial practice of giving penalty reductions based on unjust provocation in hate-motivated killing of LGBT people. 

Currently, the perpetrators continue to be rewarded by the judiciary. LGBT people will continue to be targets if the LGBT are not seen to be equal before the law. The demands of LGBT people for equality and protection under the law, full justice and freedom for LGBT people should be accomplished. This year was utterly a difficult one, marked by several hardships the LGBT had to endure, such as killing attempts, ill treatment, rape and cyber attacks. Thus, I reckon a proper end of my article would be a very inspiring line from Nazim Hikmet’s invitation poem: 

“To live like a tree single and at liberty and brotherly like the trees of a forest.



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4 Jul 2014

The Mother of Murdered Trans Woman: I Condemn the People Who Do Not Employ Our Daughters


We talked with Melek Okan, the mother of İrem Okan who was the victim of a transphobic hate crime in Bursa in 2010: “I still have contact with the other daughters. One of our daughters has recently undergone surgery. I hatefully condemn the people who do not employ our daughters. Remember not only İrem but also Ecem who was killed a year later.”

Melek Okan, the mother of İrem Okan [who died as a result of a transphobic hate crime in Bursa in 2010], joined the film screening of “My Child” (“Benim Çocuğum”) in Bursa. Melek Okan gave the film its name with her remarks about her child: “They could not find a place for my child to live in this big world.” We had a conversation about what she went through.

6 May 2014

Whips and chains excite me: Inside the kinky world of BDSM in Lebanon

ORIGINAL POST: SyndiGate.info
Who knew
Who knew? BDSM - or bondage, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism - has a dedicated band of followers in Lebanon. (Shutterstock/BDSM)
Who knew Who knew? BDSM - or bondage, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism - has a dedicated band of followers in Lebanon. (Shutterstock/BDSM)


Sitting outside a coffee shop in Sassine, Ziad gestures to himself and says, “Look at me. Who could guess I like to whip women? ”It’s a fair question, like other members of the clandestine Lebanese BDSMcommunity with whom the Daily Star spoke, Ziad comes across as an average, middle-aged guy, the kind you’d expect to see at the office or chain smoking in a cafe. Human sexuality comes up in ordinary conversation often, but BDSM – an umbrella term for bondage, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism – is not a sexual preference many understand.

1 May 2014

Introducing the Tom of Finland BDSM stamps

(Original article: dazeddigital Zing Tsjeng )

New Finnish stamps will feature graphic illustrations from the king of the crotch bulge.

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The full stamp sheet
Courtesy of Itella Posti Oy; original image from Tom of Finland Foundation


Tom of Finland, the king of the crotch-bulge, has just landed his own stamp collection. The iconic (and very graphic) work of the artist is set to adorn a new line of commemorative stamps in his native Finland, celebrating his status as one of the country's most internationally well-known artists.

27 Jan 2013

Hikaye: İki Erkek ve İki Kadının D/S Kavşağında Kesişen Yolları


Story: Two Men and Two Women's D / S junction intersecting paths.


Sabri journey during the early hours in had completed, bus inince planned in advance that a common venue to meet him to meet the Helier bus terminal not to see about the possibility of multi-head had taken, in fact, it's way later, she can eat a pile of mind from the tip passed, or until there come If anyone met with, or operated by a group of young people ... if you tried not to think about them ... Sabri Sabri's yet to get off the bus itself did not encounter anyone. Get off the bus at a time after the night journey Helier lived began looking for places to get rid of the erection of the descent. Obviously had no difficulty in finding, because the surrounding red-haired woman one vote and the bus was moving.


When the cab off and Mine was a standard set by sweet nothings move towards the house where they (were talking about it in great detail, Miner said it was the home of a slave). Helena Mine patience and not just each other and the hope of slaves would see for the first time. On the morning revival described in Antalya has yet to arrive in a short time due to traffic and apartments at the address set out of the car. A man opened the door, There's no way I could tell them to expect, since the door sees the "go ahead," he said "go inside" she received contains. Guess they hope to have this slave of Mine. Mine was sitting on the couch when they entered the hall, they were greeted with a smile, but without standing up. Although it is not unusual for patience has its natural state, and he responded with a smile and sat in the chair.


Hope, "Excuse me, sir," he left the room and was waiting for the approval of Mine, Mine, and began to hope that the role was obvious. The rest sat in the room, everyone was together a basic courtesy are exhausted. Hope it came with a tea tray in right hand, was offered to the guests do, leave it next to the muffin plate, but did nothing to Helier. Mine patience and sipping their tea, to understand the role of Helena here, began to notice. There was no longer speaking to him.

Hope mine called inside. As for hope hall "includes child take our daughter, help, and he're prepared, you're prepared," he said. They now include Heller and Hope, leather collars around their necks when they had returned a little later, Hope only shorts and a sleeveless top with a thin T-shirt had come. Helin of the night brought, came with a combination satin, more cases can not be fully used to feel like he was naked. Helena was pretty obvious because of the lines also had removed their underwear on. Helin, "Now what's next?" as if to say, but stood quietly standing next to Hope. Hope was familiar with the situation. Both just as in a roll call, standing in front of the seat of the two masters were still standing.


Mine suddenly the subject of conversation which will be replaced with conventional and distance Sabre "zevkdaş your life, what would you do, you tell me," he said. Sabri politely, "I would ask, please," he said. Mine, "I would be glad if you give examples of your creativity," he said. Sabri little thought, "Hope you know, but Heller with both first time we encounter", (for which it Mine and Hope was very old too ...), "a slave overall quality control let's say." "Please come in," said Miner, "Our daughter is yours." With patience and thanked the head with a finger pointing to itself called Helier. Helena had the patience to look through the eyes of a lord at all, but it seemed strange was to adapt to the situation.

Helin approached Sabri hard, but with an expression of distance on the front of the crash said the two directories. Helena's hair gathered, bag fresh from approximately 5 cm shiny metal rings spend bottom has collected and with cable ties were common, now Helena at the beginning of that can be kept a solid ring had, Sabri these instruments was very fond of. From this ring of Helena holding her hair back Helier laid his head, his mouth open and teeth examined, slid his hand into the mouth of teeth polled Helier, language looked down and gag reflex to say. Well, it was not as crispy but it was okay for a female slave ... Helia hard to stand up with orders, he said. Helena combination of dropping one of the chest strap pulled one of the hands was a discussion, looked to the hardness of the nipple. Tests and actually enjoy doing them rather than with the aim to humiliate Helier was doing. In some places had it valued, and the rest acted as an insignificant cost. Sabrina Heller dipleri one by one from the chest ring with his hands clasped firmly, then left. Although there is enough sagging breasts breast torture seemed to fit almost any kind. Mine turned, smiling, "Do you want to look, I'm very happy," he said. Mine "I trust you, but still would be good to enter the air," he said.
Mine took the opposite Helena, Helena smiled slightly. Mine compassionate voice up and asked him to approach. To whisper in his ear "approach" made the sign and whispered something in his ear. Helena was standing fairly close Mine, Mine's face and leaned his chest. Tooth enamel chest with his head caught Helier, Helena kept ensesinden froze like a kitten, there was an expression on his face much, te teeth thoroughly with the Mine compressing the chest to the head. A painful expression on his face appeared, but also many more did not. Mine did not look like a woman but it does fit the nipple teeth Helier did not miss at all. A slight leak had come into the language. Leak had a metallic taste. Helin was pulled back slightly. Mine had chest lay your head on the contrary, continued to bite well. Mine had been left a trail of red on her lips when pulled. Although not feel it was one thing Sabri Mine. Sabria back, "I liked it," he said, "full flavor".


Sabrina Heller felt he was being put into the plan by the dualistic, should look a little angry, he was also a efen here was fantastic. Helena again Sabri'nin arrive in front of Sabrina him standing spread your legs as far as to open said ... Helier it ostensibly frivolous doing, feeling a little more range AmAsInI harshly repeated, and with their feet on the wrist by hitting both sides to open the incentive was found. Mine permission from the stunner then called Hope and from the smell and cleanliness with his tongue down her control until they asked him to stop. Hope this penis holder of panties he was wearing. The removal of the penis was painful to him. But I could not resist his master's command.

Helia patience in the face during the process reminded me that there should be the slightest symptoms, Sabrina was very fond of this game, Miner knew it very well. Especially when working with the language of hope from the bottom in many colors but after a while I did not reflexively closed his eyes, closing with a slap Sabri'den seven. I wake up to release himself from the situation immediately opened his eyes, eyes glaze over after a while, this did not last long, as it separates your eyes slap Sabri'den seven. After a while, both thoroughly flushed cheek, and it was obvious that tingle. in this way by accident than two violent slap was dull for a long time after eating. As a result of the accumulation of things at one time turned a blind eye and a big pleasure screamed, his eyes began to wait slap yumup. Patience in this moment more painful slap random standby state had seen. Especially for the more troubled eyes closed was formed. He did not know when that slap in, just waiting. Twenty seconds later came a violent slap. Hope had finished the task. He was in throes of agony because of the organ.

Patience and Mine, with Heller agreed that Hope deserves better than punishment, the punishment given to both talked about and agreed among themselves. Hope Heller and stand naked on his knees and his hands would serve as. Hope we make coffee or tea, bring your patience Mine remained. In fact, this work Sabria Mine instinctively want to demolish, but the master slave relationship between superiors and subordinates is not the way home from the Sabra and to bring him tea and breakfast was seeing more. Sabri was hungry, he thanked Mine. Sabri Helier placed on the back of hot tea and enjoy kahvaltılıg began. Although Helin placed on his back with coaster even a little freaked out because of hot tea. Sabri soothed, stroking her hair, lest tea spewed onto the woman's hand picked to provide. The hope of life was not so sweet, so rather not bother Mine had put their backs.

They spent about half an hour of conversation you can enjoy breakfast. When finished breakfast Sabri melted butter and mix with a little jam with a butter knife Heller began riding to the hair. Mine did not expect an action in this way, but it also drew attention, started to watch. Sabrina Heller's hair beautifully sunk after the unexpected thing, making green olives picked and Helium's anus from the push, then one more, one more, in a few minutes olives packed tea plate was empty. Cheddar cheese that remains where it should be sent to the two fingers and then with a beautifully placed, and sensed Helier was annoyed spite of a few minutes to stretch to stretch two fingers inside the hole kept. Sabri has eaten olives beans handful took and Helena to the mouth and leaned, Helena's ass finger remove a thank-as if he said them as network picked up and retains in his mouth and started sucking. Sabrina remaining crumbs on top of helium and wipes clean with plenty of drops and wet wipes contain Helier sent from the anus.

Sabri Helier gave permission to remove the core at the mouth. Then fill in a bar of milk into his mouth but do not swallow asked. Taken into the mouth followed by milk Helier's mouth taped with packing tape. Heller took over the relations and to stand up and asked him to approach. Helin neared face slapped very hard. This was followed by a series of more slaps. Meanwhile, at the mouth of every slap Helier milk was coming from the nose. When a single airway from the nose and nasal passages due to the milk was wet and had breathing difficult. After a few tıksırık Helier Sabri's mouth opened and the tape was sent to the bathroom for toiletries in the bathroom chapter. Helier's hair spills from dripping to the ground licking milk soon after by cleaning tasks Mine was given to Hope.

Sabri soon got up and went to the bathroom, to tug tugging of hair to Helier, and hustled brought into the hall naked and wet. Women brought to the front of the carpet and forced bowed forward, with hands joined behind the towel and a severe decline and kicked ass. Helena suddenly found himself in space and fell to the ground face down. Helena waved a couple of jelly-like body dehydrated. Helena's face turned sober up from Sabria looked before. Just before the patience of view there was a chain in his hand.
Sabrina chain in the hands of two or three-piece has a long chain attached to each other with bean call.

Sabrina wet lying on the ground beside Helier sat on the floor. Sabri woman ran his hand a little wet body in the legs, cellulite on the legs and hips gave an idea of ​​the age of the woman's makeup. It was a little fazlac weight compared to cellulite. "Roger, orange peel gonna fuck this evening," said a harsh light humming sound can be heard, but Helier. Then, "I'm fed them to collect it from the street you need," he continued, "are worthy of them." Through "Sorry, that once we start online, masculinity stay with us," he said. Back to Mine looked so bored ... Is Mine "Come on, come on" in the sense made a sign. Watched with interest. Sabri began to stir, taking their support Helier's arms kept trying to stand united behind. Tied with cable ties around arms and thrown several rounds of chain, tied tightly. Chain Helier's head ripped from his neck in the ring spend and spend again ring can stretch without damaging Helier pulled up. Helena moaned a little, Sabri "Shut the fucking asshole, located're doing business," he shouted. Sabri with a locked chain Helier pod secures the arm was round. Had increased quite a chain. Sabri Helier's been brought back by holding the truffles. Anus squeezed a little shampoo, then began sending chain provides bean. Two bean pod ... ...

The chain is now more fully Helier was in the intestines. Sabrina slid his hand down hard on the heart of St. Helier St. Helier is kept and turned his back. Such an unsuitable place had hurt Helier's grasp but Sabri it had done very quickly, Helin was delayed in responding, found himself on his back in the winter filled chain. Was a bit heavy. Sabri's Helier our ankles 8 format is also wrapped. This chain started to drag. Mine said making a sign to approach the balcony door. Mine walked toward the door.

Sabri hold Helier pulled balcony. I did not see another apartment balcony but the index was slightly higher level. Heller to appear naked on the balcony was leaning as possible, literally clung to the ground. Sabri went inside and came up with muddy water in a bucket in his hand, as it is poured onto Helier, especially in the bottom of the sleeve thick Helier's head and face were empty. Dirty dirty side of a house painter nylon and rope wrapped around with balcony squeeze just left the place. Internally called Hope, he sat on the body wrapped in nylon, the prospect was sat next to. Hope lit a cigarette, Sabrina Hope cigarettes asked, received and nylon from the end Helier open mouth of cigarettes gave Helena a deep breath and must have caught like a chimney smoke output nylon end, Hope cigarettes for permission Sabria was looking Sabri "oil said, "This is yours. There is here Helier took the cigarette from burning. Smoking also was in the mud, Sabri disgust on the balcony of a wet corner threw include increasingly viscous mud brought in buckets, Hope the leg by a Helier lifting ordered, shield pipe-like nylon bucket viscous mud quickly boca had mud, a portion of the nylon other output went by. Hope came by Sabri, the balcony door was locked.
About 20 minutes had passed. Helin wrapped in plastic form by rolling the balcony door stood beside the balcony. Nylon grinding sound of the door sounded. Mine turned Sabria not budge. "Do you include Alsaka now?" he said. "I've been waiting Sormani said," patience. "Look at the guy or we söylemesek going to leave her daughter there ..." he said a little sarcastically Mine. "If it was me I would wrap a little bunker behind the door on the other," said Sabri again sarcastically, of the fact that he was looking forward to the enamel, so it was not a sadist.

"Well, if you wish, come here ... Hope"

Being careful not to let the cast wrapped in mud and they moved to the bathroom, in the bathtub decipher. Sabri Helier dessert every corner of the slightly overweight body washed it with warm water until it is free from çamurar. There was not much chance of that state Helier, mud literally sucked the energy of people.

Chain rings gently pulled from the anus, so that it is able to put your own how many chain links were also amazed. Then I untied her arms. Helin start to get yourself locked the door to the bathroom Sabri, who was lying face down in the tub Helier pulled from the bathtub, lay prone on the floor of the bathroom was still wet on wet. Wash with the chains of St. Helier wrists tied together, ankles tied the ends of a long piece bathroom spend on the two sides of the heating pipe ends picked up. Be strong enough to pull her body in two directions Helier's legs almost gave the opening, in the middle of thoroughly stretched taut as a locked chain link and connected. Is a process, "ah, ah .. say," until brought a little more strained. Then Helier opened, until softened, cum in and out of the anus. When finished Helia gave a cigarette, he opened sipped beer brought from the kitchen. After 10 minutes, looked at Helia was extinguished cigarettes on the ground wetness litterally half. Especially when approaching a certain indefinite patience swore. He opened his jaw, keeping patience Helier, St. Helier butts stuffed into the mouth so that contamination of ground and his hand was shut. A second mailing went further. When he was done Helier's ear bent, a very polite voice, "Thank you filthy bitch," he whispered, and went into the hall bırakp. Mine "Did we miss something?" he said. Sabri, laughing, "do not ever," he said, "I'm tired little girl tired, you solve it?" she asked, and received approval. After resting for a few minutes, "Thank you for this beautiful day Mistress Mine," he said, "for a rematch appropriate time you'd like to invite you, please, Bring Hope" and he rose up to go.

Especially when pulling the door open with chains still in the bathroom, naked, wet, mouth overflowing from the tobacco plant as lay. "Thank God I finished," he said to himself.

(FIN)

This story is true, but the people have not been referred to by their real names. If events are pure fiction. The main roles are taken on the consent of the people.

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