To be a submissive is different for everyone. We each have
different ideas of what a submissive is, should and might be.
I meet many
different types of submissive in my line of work. Some I will remember for
eternity, others not. Some I have enjoyed being Mistress to, others I have not.
I can outline four types of submissive I have come into
contact with - all in their own ways unique and interesting.
The Role Play Submissive is just that - They want to play at
being a submissive either face to face with a Mistress or online. For a few
hours they will "play" the part of a submissive calling Me Mistress
in order to fulfil a fantasy they have.
The Sexual Submissive have a kink or fetish they wish to
explore. They want and need to be restrained, blindfolded, spanked, flogged,
beaten or whatever their fetish is. And once the fetish and sex act is over,
they go away happy until the next time.
Then there is the Online Submissive. I first discovered just
how many online submissives there were when I joined Twitter. Within this group
there are submissives who do genuinely devote their time to one Mistress, there
are those who are 'Fans' or active followers of a Mistress. But there are also
those who are submissive while in the chat room, write out elaborate serves for
the One they serve, vow eternal love and submission to the One but then when
they go to another room or another name they're saying the same things to
Another. Sometimes, they even have a camera to prove how submissive they are -
photos to prove it.
To me, a True Submissive is not easy to find. When you do,
it's hard to let them go. These are the submissives I am fond of and eagerly
await our meetings. To me, a true submissive serves from his heart, and they
don't need a Mistress driving them to do something, they do it willingly,
gladly, eagerly.
They have insight and truly care. They see their Mistress's
glass as half empty and they fill it, they take care of their Mistress's needs.
I have found that True submissives don't
need words of praise showered upon them, it is enough that their Mistress is pleased
and comfortable - knowing their Mistress is content is praise enough. The sparkle in their
Mistress's eyes or a touch by the hand of their Mistress is high praise.
Recently, I found one such potential submissive. He had all
the qualities to become a perfect true submissive. I call him Ash. He takes
what I teach seriously and into his heart. he practices tasks I may have asked
of him and endeavours to perfect them. He remembers the rules, the postures and
instructions.
He has always chosen to bring me a gift - not because I
asked him, but because he wanted to - it is what true submissives do. They
think of their Mistress, even at an airport lounge and purchase a little
something to see the sparkle in their Mistress's eye. It pleases Me when I know
I have a session with Ash, I know it will be, for me, both a spiritual and
mental pleasure to have him in the dungeon. In our last session, he informed me
that he would probably have to leave at the end of May to return to India as
his work would come to an end. This saddened me. For a blinding few seconds, My
mind sparked for inspiration as to how I could keep him in the UK - for My own
selfish reasons.
A true submissive is difficult to find. I am hoping Ash will
find more work in the UK as he serves from his heart. He will do something,
willingly, gladly and fervently.
I will purchase him a gift this week - A colour coordinated
bra and panty set. I know he will wear them well, even when not asked to.
No comments:
Post a Comment