Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Volume 17, July 5,
2014
D J Williams, PhD: Center for Positive Sexuality (Los
Angeles) and Idaho State University
Jeremy N. Thomas, PhD: Idaho State University
Emily E. Prior, MA: Center for Positive Sexuality (Los
Angeles) and College of the Canyons
M. Candace Christensen, PhD: University of Texas at San
Antonio
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Abstract
The BDSM (consensual sadomasochism) community has commonly
utilized Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC), or more recently Risk Aware
Consensual Kink (RACK) as basic frameworks to help structure the negotiation of
BDSM participation. While these approaches have been useful, particularly for
educating new participants concerning parameters of play, both approaches
appear to have significant practical and conceptual limitations. In this paper
we introduce an alternative framework for BDSM negotiation, Caring,
Communication, Consent, and Caution (4Cs), and discuss its potential
advantages.
Background and Introduction
From the time of Richard von Krafft-Ebing’s (1886/1978) text
Psychopathia Sexualis, BDSM has commonly been assumed to be motivated by an
underlying psychopathology. Although biases and misinterpretations among
professionals still remain (see Hoff & Sprott, 2009; Kolmes, Stock, &
Moser, 2007; Wright, 2009), researchers have consistently shown that BDSM
cannot be explained by psychopathology (i.e., Connelly, 2006; Cross &
Matheson, 2006; Powls & Davies, 2012; Richters, de Visser, Rissel, Grulich,
& Smith, 2008; Weinberg, 2006). Some scholars have recognized that not only
is BDSM participation not associated with psychopathology, but that it may be
associated with desirable psychological states that are often associated with
healthy leisure experience (Newmahr, 2010; Taylor & Ussher, 2001; Williams,
2006, 2009; Wismeijer & van Assen, 2013). Indeed, a widespread shift in
understanding seems to be occurring wherein consensual BDSM participation is
believed to be an acceptable expression of sexuality and/or leisure.
In light of this shift and in combination with the
development of community-based research as a methodological strategy across the
social sciences generally, an exciting recent development is the formal
collaboration between scholars and communities of people with alternative
sexual identities, including BDSM. The Community-Academic Consortium for
Research on Alternative Sexualities (CARAS) was formed in 2005 and combines the
knowledge and strengths of scholars and community members to produce
high-quality knowledge that can directly benefit the community (Sprott &
Bienvenu II, 2007). We welcome this development, and it is in the spirit of
mutual benefit that we write the present paper. In fact, we are both scholars
and also members of the BDSM community. Hopefully, our discussion here will
generate insights among both academics and nonacademics.
In this paper, we summarize the popular BDSM community
mottos of Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) and Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
(RACK) before proposing what we think is an improved approach, which we call
the Caring, Communication, Consent, and Caution (4Cs) framework. Since each
framework explicitly includes the precise concept of consent, we will discuss a
few of the thorny issues surrounding the notion of consent within the 4Cs model
a little bit later in the paper, rather than in our summary of SSC and RACK. We
do this simply as a matter of retaining a consistent overall structure for
readers.