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14 Jun 2012

MI6 dirty secrets.. why do sex games appear to feature in so many spy deaths?


MI6 dirty secrets.. why do sex games appear to feature in so many spy deaths?

Disposing of an enemy and making it look like a perverted fantasy gone wrong is in the training manuals of every spy agency from MI6 to Mossad

UK - LONDON - SITTING at the Gareth Williams inquest this week, listening to the more lurid details of the case, it occurred to me the death of spooks in bizarre circumstances involving sex games or women’s clothing is hardly an unusual event.

Disposing of an enemy and making it look like a perverted fantasy gone wrong is in the training manuals of every spy agency from MI6 to Mossad.

Codebreaker Gareth, from Anglesey, North Wales, was found dead in a locked bag, in a flat full of women’s clothing and wigs, and with his internet browsing history conveniently featuring bondage sites, sparking a flurry of allegations which shocked and horrified his parents.

But the fact the 31-year-old’s death scene was organised in such a way as to suggest a sex game gone wrong should make us more suspicious not less.

The sex game cover is a very useful mechanism in a murder. Not only does it provide a disguise for the actual means and method of death, it also trashes the reputation of the victim and blunts the energy of any subsequent investigation.

And it appears to explain the astonishing number of spies, and other people who step into their murky world, who turn up dead in circumstances similar to Gareth.
Take GCHQ personnel for instance, those that work at the vast electronic doughnut in Cheltenham that is responsible for intercepting and decoding secret electronic traffic of interest to Her Majesty’s Government. And Gareth’s ultimate employer.
In 1983, 25-year-old Stephen Drinkwater, who worked as a clerk at GCHQ, was found dead at his home with a plastic bag over his head.
In 1997 another worker, Nicholas Husband, 46, was found dead at home dressed in a bra and panties - with a plastic bag over his head.
Two years later, Kevin Allen, 31, a language expert at GCHQ, was found dead in his bed at home with a plastic bag over his head and a dust mask over his mouth.
One wonders what the Gloucestershire Constabulary make of it all.
To be fair, the kind of higher mathematical ability that many GCHQ codebreakers have is rare and it sometimes comes with some personal eccentricities attached.
Alan Turing, the Cambridge Don and founder of modern computer science who became the greatest of the wartime Bletchley Park codebreakers was a distinctly odd fish - a loner with sexual hang-ups who seemed to spend most of his waking hours dreaming of obscure mathematical theorems.
The point was amusingly made in 60s film The Italian Job in which Charlie Croker, played by Michael Caine, recruits computer genius Professor Simon Peach - Benny Hill - to pull off a daring bullion robbery.
But the whole scheme nearly comes unstuck as Prof Peach is unable to control his powerful urges towards large women.
MI6, who recruit a more worldly-wise type than the boffins of GCHQ, have not been immune.
In 1994 an ex-MI6 man turned journalist, James Rusbridger, 65, was found hanged at his house in Cornwall - in a green chemical protection suit including rubber gloves, gas mask, and black plastic mackintosh. Bondage pictures completed the tableau.

And of course, according to the pathologist, it turned out he probably did it himself as part of a sex game.
The same year Stephen Milligan, the Tory MP for Eastleigh, was found dead with electrical flex tied in round his neck, a black bin liner over his head and wearing stockings and suspenders.

The 45-year-old was also tied to a chair and had a satsuma stuffed into his mouth. His boss at the time, then junior defence minister Jonathan Aitken, has since denied suggestions Milligan had links to MI6. Even if you are not a spook you need to be careful.

In 1990, the ex-RAF helicopter pilot and editor of Defence Helicopter World, Jonathan Moyle, 28, was found hanged in the wardrobe of his hotel in Chile with a pillow case over his head. At the time his demise was widely thought to be an auto-erotic accident. He was in fact almost certainly murdered after uncovering links between Chilean arms dealers and Saddam Hussein.

The last person to give evidence at the Gareth Williams inquest was Detective Chief Inspector Jackie Sebire - the senior investigating officer in the case. She stated confidently that she was sure that she and her team would be able to unlock the mystery in the end. But she also felt that this, her final appearance in court, was an appropriate time to remind the assembled audience of Williams’ internet browsing habits.

The last website he accessed probably just a few hours before his death was connected to cycling - a photo of him competing in a cross-country cycling race has been seen frequently in the national newspapers.
But then she went on to deal with the browsing information that had been made much of in the media over the last 20 months. Williams had accessed bondage websites on four days over a two-year period. He had never accessed so-called “claustrophilia” sites which cater for people who get a thrill out of being confined in small spaces.

There we have it - the view of the woman in charge of the probe. Williams may have had a passing interest in bondage but no more than that. Even this passing interest may have a perfectly innocent explanation.

All MI6 officers get extensive training before they are allowed out on to the streets. Much of this takes place at Fort Monckton near Gosport - a Napoleonic era fortress surrounded by barbed wire and accessible only by a drawbridge. It includes instruction in basic entry and exit procedures - buildings and cars mainly.

If you ever get locked out of your flat and know a friendly spook from school or university give them a ring.
They should be able to get you back inside and could save you a fortune on locksmith’s fees. The instruction also includes some counter-surveillance techniques - how to make sure you are not followed.

And some instruction on what to do if you fall into the wrong hands - resistance to interrogation and crucially what to do if you are restrained - tied or chained up. It is possible Williams had some of this training and it might well account for the episode when he was discovered tied up in his room by his Cheltenham landlady.
That the sex game angle was a simple smear is a view certainly not ruled out by the Westminster coroner who said, “it is still a legitimate line of inquiry” Gareth died at the hands of MI6.

In her narrative verdict, Dr Fiona Wilcox said: “I am sure a third party placed the bag into the bath and on the balance of probabilities locked the bag.

The cause of death was unnatural and likely to have been criminally meditated. I am therefore satisfied that on the balance of probabilities Gareth was killed unlawfully.”  I was impressed by Dr Wilcox. She had good judgment and wisdom as can be seen from her verdict in the case. She played down the bondage question and the interest in female fashion - Williams had an expensive collection of women’s clothing nearly all of it unworn and most of it not in his size. She seemed to accept the view of Williams’ sister these were a store of presents for his female acquaintances. Dr Wilcox pretty much dismissed the idea of any sexual component in his death.

SADLY that is the aspect many people will remember. Well, these kinky games with yourself or other people go wrong - what can you expect - becomes the prevailing attitude. There is some consolation, perhaps, that occasionally the dark arts of post-mortem reputation trashing are employed in a good cause and based on hard facts rather than a set-up.

The strange and squalid habits of Osama Bin Laden before his death have been used to great effect by the US to make him a laughing stock.

By Crispin Black, former Government intelligence adviser.
* Crispin Black’s espionage thriller The Falklands Intercept will be published by Gibson Square on June 19.
Source and photo's on: Mirror.co.uk.

Source: www.mirror.co.uk. - Mirror News - UK

6 Jun 2012

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50 Shades of Grey


Have you read ‘The Book?’”


That’s the question women from the Upper East Side of Manhattan to the suburbs of Seattle are asking each other in increasing numbers — albeit in discreet tones.
“It,” they hardly need add, is “Fifty Shades of Grey” — part of a triple-X trilogy involving sex games and a bondage-loving billionaire. Though the three tomes weigh in at a total of 1,200-plus pages, they seem to whiz by for many, and the books may be poised to become the post-millennial equivalent of “The Story of O,” the notorious piece of kinky erotica that has titillated some and scandalized many others since it first came out in 1954.
Though “Fifty Shades” came out last year with little fanfare from The Writer’s Coffee Shop Publishing House, a small publisher “catering to the needs of aspiring authors,” in its own words, it has already generated almost 6,000 ratings on Goodreads.com, with an impressive 62 percent rating it a 5 out of 5. The book was also nominated for Best Romance in the 2011 Goodreads Choice Awards.

Triple-X trilogy of novels has women talking (quietly)

Triple-X trilogy of novels has women talking (quietly)

So here we are.... 50 shades of grey has women chattering everywhere. I haven't read it as yet, but I'm sure that at some point I will get round to it.
For those of you who have read it...please let me know what YOU think.

5 Jun 2012

My Website

Is now active......
www.sinfulandwicked.co.uk

Q&A session at professional development course for therapists.


I attended and completed my Q&A session at a course aimed at therapists. Subject matter: BDSM.


The idea to offer myself for questioning with regards BDSM came after my sister (who is a fantastic Counsellor) realised during her new professional development course, that when it came to Kink, therapists are more vanilla than anticipated.


The course was designed to update / inform therapists on BDSM. Problem was, they didn't really have a clue. So, she suggested they involve someone who actually knew the subject matter, first hand, rather than from text. The ruby red faces, awkward silence and shocked expressions presented to her when she suggested it, was enough to persuade me that this was going to be great.


So, on a hot Wednesday, armed with my knowledge, I took the train to Paddington. I wore a sexy but conservative black work dress - going dressed in latex was probably not even going to get me on the train.


Arrive at my destination. First impressions of the therapists: vanilla, vanilla, middle class, (mostly) women who really don't need to work. I couldn't wait to burst a few fluffy clouds.


"Respect my authoriteee...."
Sat in a hot room surrounded by silence. More silence. Finally, I was introduced. Silence. Then the first question:


"What is Kink?"
Then the next question:


"What about S&M?" and "Is BDSM all about role play?"


.......Several ten minute chunks later.....


"What's the worst thing you have ever been asked to do?" "How do you deal with what you do?"
I realised then, they weren't getting it.


BDSM RELATED ISSUES What is this new 'IT Phrase' they are using? What does it mean to those of us who enjoy a healthy, normal, active enjoyment of BDSM? We have issues? That we cannot be normal in psychological terms if we are like BDSM? Issues arise within our Psyche which relate directly to our involvement in BDSM. I'm not sure?


KINK FRIENDLY COUNSELLING My next newly discovered phrase. Counsellors have realised there is money to be made. But be aware, they are no more educated in it than a afternoon session with a practising dominatrix. Will they / do they really understand?




Practice makes perfect

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