HUMILIATION - YOU KNOW YOU WANT IT

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Verbal humiliation

Animal play—describing the submissive as a pet, dog, girl, or bitch; making the submissive eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.

Verbal belittlement, with such words as slave, boy, girl, missy, and pet.

Insults

Insults and verbal abuse, such as fat, ugly, stupid, and worthless.

Degrading names, such as slut, shit, bitch, and whore.

Racial and ethnic slurs.

Slighting of body parts and behaviours, such as disparaging or cruel references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia (including size), buttocks, and slighting of such mannerisms as walking, responsiveness, and standard of self-care.

Requirement to ask permission for everyday activities, such as going to the toilet, spending money, and eating.

Small-breasts humiliation, in which scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the woman's breasts or her inability to please a lover, and her breasts become objects of derision.

Small Penis Humiliation

Small-penis humiliation, in which scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the man's genitals or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.

Forced repetition, such as the submissive's being obliged to repeat commands that he or she has been given and to confirm them.

Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical and personality traits.

Mockery, derision, and ridicule.

Scolding of the type commonly reserved for children.

Physical humiliation

Ejaculating, spitting, and urinating on the submissive's body, especially the face.

Servitude

Forced sexual degradation, including such acts as erotic massage, cunnilingus, anglings, and fellatio.

Detailed accountability and control (micro-management) as to time spent and activities done, including lists of jobs to do, precise directions as to how the job is to be performed, and exactly how to act and behave.

Specific rituals and affectations to be adopted. This includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, speaking only when spoken to, kneeling or prostrating oneself in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only after others or on the floor, and low-status place to sleep.

Body worship, including such activities as kissing or licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express acknowledgment, subservience, shame, and even positive emotions (such as happiness and excitement).

Deprivation of privacy, which may include the submissive's never being able to leave the room in which the dominant is present without permission.

The dominant watches while the submissive uses the toilet.

The submissive's being forbidden to leave the house or 'dungeon' in general for the duration of slavery or servitude, etc.

Discipline

Discipline (BDSM), including erotic spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint, and other BDSM activities (such as cock-and-ball torture (CBT)).

Dress code (BDSM): prescriptions and proscriptions of clothing, even in public.

For women, a common example is being mandated to wear only bikinis or lingerie.

For men, forced feminizing and cross-dressing.

Both sexes may be expected to go completely naked, with decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, and cuffs as the only exceptions.

Erotic Sexual Denial

Erotic sexual denial, including the use of a chastity belt.

Wearing of external signs of "ownership", such as collars.

Public humiliation, in which the submissive's friends or family, or strangers, are aware of or even witness the treatment.

Erotic Objectification

Erotic objectification, in which the submissive is used as human furniture, such as a footstool.

Embarrassment.

Forced anal penetration, with dildos, anal plugs, and similar objects.

Cuckolding, a mostly heterosexual fetish in which the dominant woman has sex with a man outside of the relationship while the submissive man may or may not be present. If the man is not present, he might help her choose what clothes to wear when she meets the other man, or they might get together afterward so she can tell him about it, either while having sex or in addition to withholding sex. If the man is present during the cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching. The cuckolding may or may not be followed by sex between the couple. Another variant of the cuckolding fetish is that a heterosexual couple fantasizes that another man has already impregnated the woman.

The submissive's having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.

The submissive's being forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body.

Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.

Feelings of humiliation are key to many of those engaged in klismaphilia.

Feederism

Some sexual humiliation involves physical inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and embarrassment.

Sexual role-playing can involve humiliation. For example, one person might play the part of a dog because he or she enjoys being mock-forced into it, and the top might emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of an inner animal or playful spirit.

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