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13 Oct 2020
Dear Mistress from Your most humble slave Paul
1 Oct 2020
The BDSM Test Is the Get-To-Know-Your-Kink Diagnostic So Many Sexologists Recommend - or is it?
BDSM is a tidy acronym for a broad range of sexual
preferences that relate to physical control, usually broken into six
components, “bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadism and
masochism,” according to Ali Hebert and Angela Weaver, professors in the
department of psychology at St. Francis Xavier University, writing in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality. And
it can be a safe, consensual avenue for
exploring the kinks that comprise your unique sexual fingerprint. But for the
uninitiated, BDSM can conjure images of how it’s portrayed in pop culture—and
let’s just say, Fifty Shades of Grey is
not it. Sexologists and sex educators say that IRL BDSM is more
about communication with yourself and your partner than it is about Red Rooms
of Pain. And to get that conversation started, there’s an online BDSM test that
can help you safely learn your tastes.
5 Aug 2020
The Seven Common Types of Internet Submissives
By BDSM Tourguide
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In day-to-day dealing with the online BDSM community, a dominant will typically run across many submissives in chat, forums or mailing lists. Although each submissive has their own personality and quirks and flaws and merits, each will usually fit into one of the following seven categories of internet submissive behavior.
Please do note that these are only the most common types of internet submissives; others do exist, but to much lesser degrees.
Type One: The “Little Girl” Submissive –
Ever-blushing and ever-giggly, the “little girl” type of submissive is the consummate child actor. She will usually use every cute little hair twist and every sweet little smile in her arsenal to make sure everyone finds her to be the sweetest little girl in the whole community.
These little girls typically ooze sweetness and often make dominants and other submissives in the community wonder what they’re really up to. Little girl types usually do not get along with other little girl types at all, as they typically crave attention and another little girl trying to muscle in on another little girl’s turf is an open threat to the incumbent little girl’s monopoly on attention-getting. For this same reason, little girl submissives do not usually do well in polyamorous relationships, preferring to be the sole object of their partner’s attention. A positive aspect of little girl types is that they are usually unwaveringly devoted to their partners and once they find a partner, they are unlikely to leave that person.
From a purely psychological perspective, one has to wonder if the little girl type uses her wiles and charms and craves attention to cover up self-esteem issues.
18 Jul 2020
BDSM 101 - an Introductory Guide to Humiliation Play for Consenting Adults
27 Apr 2020
Wax Play 101
25 Mar 2020
The Great Transsexual Radical Feminist Menace
Having re-read the article, I remembered the anger I felt during a 'Drag Queen' event I hosted a couple of years ago.
Briefly I shall explain:
I had a good friend who offered the use of his pub for our party. The venue happened to be a 'gay' pub. Naively, I didn't see any issues arising from the event being held in a gay pub. But, what actually took place - behind the scenes- as you might say during the evening, shocked me. There was a definite divide amongst the two sets of party attendees. There was an almost aggressive animosity from the 'regular' lesbian pub goers towards the transgendered / transsexual and cross dressing party attendees.
At first, I really couldn't work it out. I remember marching in late 80's (yes - I was still a wee girl then) and 90's throughout London, fighting for 'gay rights', EQUALITY and acceptance. I couldn't understand how or why, one section of a minority group ( who should understand the struggle for acceptance and equality ) could be so against the struggles of another?
As is my character, I started asking questions.... The one comment I can clearly remember was this: "I may be a lesbian, but I'm still ALL woman! Not some wannabe. My pussy's real."
You can imagine, the anger and disappointment I felt.
Going back to the article I read:
17 Mar 2020
BDSM Lifestyle Versus Play
What do you like about BDSM? Why are you involved? What is it that attracted you and what do you want to get out of it? Questions such as these will determine the direction one opts to take with this genre known as BDSM. As with most things in life, the answers will be individual in nature. Each person is different with goals and aspirations that are personal. That being said, the arena we are in is large enough to fit everyone.
Practice makes perfect
Resulting form the lack of effectiveness in work while wearing shackles, I did promise Mistress to practice more at home when I have time an...
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