Qualities of A Successful Dominant by Polly Peachum | The Iron Gate

Qualities of A Successful Dominant by Polly Peachum | The Iron Gate

Change and conformity.

Over the last few days I have been contemplating these two words:

Change

Conformity

Both to me are ideas within humanity I have, throughput my life, either rebelled against or cherished. Change. This is one I cherish. The ability of society to change. But, it takes a strong minded person to accept change and envelop it. Throughout history, man had feared change. feared the unknown. People have adopted the attitude that the world is OK as it is. They fear change, they prefer the security of the status quo in which they live in. Even those who may think change in any form, whether social ideas, democracy, politics, attitudes, social systems requires change, will not pursue change unless it affects them on an individual level. Who cares if those living on an estate 3 miles away are trapped in a circle of degeneration? As long as it doesn't affect us personally, it can stay the same. these are the people who join the bandwagon of rebellion in thought only, for, the most morbid fear to mankind is the fear of a new idea, doctrine or belief. We would rather , as Shakespeare noted, choose to bear the ills which we have 'than flee to others that they not know of.'

The idea of Gay Marriage in America, Women as Bishops, attitudes towards bdsm...I could go on. Minority Issues, as they are classed by society. Attitudes need to change. This cannot be done as long as we are willing to stay silent, trade the future for a quiet life. Change cannot come until everyone is informed about these issues, stereo types are crushed, false information corrected and support is given.

This brings me to to conformity. I am, by nature, a nonconformist! I will not, if I can help it, conform to the majority idea, rule or view point if I do not believe in it.

Non conformity  is difficult. We have been brought up in a society governed by people pressure, a conditioning of our minds to accept the status quo, a governing of group consensus. we are physiologically conditioned to take the path of least resistance.  Henry Wadsworth Longfellow once said that; 'In this world a man must either be anvil or hammer.' We must either mould and create a better society, or we allow society to mould and condition us to the views of the majority rule.

People fear taking a stand supporting an idea or belief which may make us stand alone against prevailing public opinion. We would rather not stand alone. Collectivism crushes individualism. We fear being singled out, noted for being different. How many of us truly have the audacity to express our convictions in public? How many of us would express enjoyment of BDSM during a discussion in the staff room? Society tells us: Its OK, in fact, encouraged, to ENJOY drinking alcohol on a Friday night until you can't stand, until you are sick, to making a fool of yourself in public, to urinate against a public wall while intoxicated, but, to admit to enjoying BDSM? No way!

Nonconformists. If it was not for disciplined, dedicated nonconformists, man kind would never have grown. We would still be segregated within society according to our colour, race or religion. Women would still be waiting for the right to vote. We would still think the World was flat.

I am a nonconformist.

All things must change to something new, to something strange. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Detention

What we call detention is a long period of punishment, It is traditional at school, ( especially now that most corporal punishment is forbidden ) that it is given after school hours or on weekends. 

Of course, my version not only allows for physical punishment, it strongly recommends it. During detention time, my sub should be punished with a combination of impositions and beatings. It will be a sustained period of hard punishment with no respite. A suitable combination detention would be:

• A welcome paddling or caning
• Time allocated for writing 110 ordinary lines. No errors allowed (ripped up if a line is wrong) Punishment as necessary.
• Time allocated learning a poem or book passage for recitation (kneeling)
• Time allocated sitting still or standing still, followed by the earned punishments. • Time allocated for examining the recitation (punishment her for failing)
• Time allocated copying from a book. Check and punish. 

During all the detention the sub should be silent, when working, should be seated in the sitting still position, with no unnecessary movements, and with no noise at all, not even when changing pencils or moving the sheets of paper or the book pages. Should sit on a hard bench, and even if sub was spanked, paddled or caned, no fidgeting should be allowed. 

My New Toy

As my new toy, you are played with as I sit fit. 

For starters, 

• Your penis is mine. 
• You may not play with it, unless I give you permission. 
• I will tell you how my property will be handled. 
• You may not receive pleasure, until I say how and when. 

As my new toy, all opening are mine. I use them as I wish. Sometimes I must use my strap-on, sometimes a plug, and on rare occasions my hands. 

When I am done playing with my toy, I sometimes need to put my feet up. So my toy must be a good foot stole. 

Also, they must be good at foot message - a good way of relaxing after I am done playing. 

My Little Puppy

I need a new puppy to train. You sit there on the floor like a good little puppy. with leash in my hand, you are ready to be trained. You learn all the basic commands with hand signals. 

You learn to sit, stay, roll-over, fetch, give paw, signal to go to the bathroom and how to walk beside me on a leash. 

You will be spoiled if you are good and punished if not. 

Sometimes I like to dress my puppy in clothes - so very cute. 

Night Security

The setting here is straightforward:

I am a security guard, and the submissive (you) has committed some infraction--perhaps trespassing on secure property while walking home late one night. The security guard confronts the offender, and takes the offender back into the security room, where the offender is subject to a humiliating strip search. 

The security guard explains that standard policy is for the police to be notified and the offender is to be booked for criminal trespass, but that other arrangements can be made; at this point, wishing to avoid a night in jail, the offender does whatever the security guard instructs.

As a variation, the security guard is required by company policy to videotape the search, to prevent liability problems; after the guard and the trespasser reach their agreement, the guard continues to videotape the trespasser while the guard molests him or her, just to add to the humiliation... 

The Sex Slave

INTRODUCTION

“It’s several days since I acquired my new sex slave and he’s now well acquainted with his new life of daily torment.” “ I've found that I’ve got no use for his arms, so I’ve now settled on keeping him permanently in a strait jacket. I also keep his ankles tied together and I keep a soft rope tied round his cock and balls. This is working out well, as I can lead him about by the rope, with him shuffling along pathetically, and we no longer have his arms getting in the way.” “When I woke my slave up this morning, I got him to drink my piss and spend 10 minutes or so licking my anus – a routine that helps to keep him aware of his completely subordinate position. I now decide to use my slave for some more amusement....”

TODAY’S ACTIVITIES 

(1) I tie him, face down, onto a horizontal bench so that he’s totally immobile. He’s already in his strait jacket, but now he can’t even bend his knees etc. I start by pinching and slapping his body with my hand and by administering some other torments. I then decide to make his bottom a nice uniform red by spanking it systematically with a paddle. After 40 strokes or so, the slave is begging me to stop. I remind him that he’s not allowed to make any requests, and give him a further 6 hard strokes for insubordination.

(2) Then, I get my slave to stand to attention with a book balanced on his head, and to recite his promise a few times: Slave: “I am your possession. I understand and accept that you can do what you want with me. My only purpose is to obey you.”

(3) I then get my slave to lie on his back. I sit on his face so that his nose is on my anus. I’ve got a cane with some nettles tied to the end and I play at stinging his legs and stomach with this, while still sitting on his face. If he’s disobedient and bends his knees or flinches, then I stand him up and give him 6 hard strokes of the paddle on his bottom. We then start all over again until he demonstrates that he’s properly obedient.

(4) I next decide to feed my slave – and punish with 6 strokes of the paddle for every lapse from perfect behaviour:

* I feed him with a bowl of fruit yogurt mixed with used tea leaves and mustard, spooning it into his mouth.

* I then make him drink a jar of his own pee (that he made earlier), again, spooning it into his mouth.

* I also make him eat a piece of orange peel, followed by a spoonful of vinegar. *

 I then make a thin smear of Marmite on my body and get him to lick it off, leaving no trace. I repeat in several places, eg: nipples, inner thighs, bottom.

(5) I then get him to worship me orally, kissing and licking any parts of my body that I choose. I’m very particular about how it’s done and quick to punish anything that’s not done exactly as I want it to be.