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30 Jul 2012
DJ’s host Fifty Shades of Grey book burning party
A pair of DJ’s from Ohio held a book burning for the ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ trilogy said they were ‘giving voice to people who think it’s a piece of garbage’
The DJ’s for WMMS-FM in Cleveland, Chad Zumock and Alan Cox said they were inundated with calls from listeners about how ‘horrible’ the book is, so decided to host a book-burning party during their afternoon drive time show.
‘This is giving voice to people who think it’s a piece of garbage’ said Cox.
‘Men can’t live up to this book, and it’s become an issue’ said Zumock, who went on to add it contributed to a friend’s divorce.
‘They’re more interested in this and to go bed alone’ he added.
According to local reports, one female fan of the book used a fire extinguisher in an unsuccessful attempt to rescue the novel.
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29 Jul 2012
Radical feminists are acting like a cult
WRITTEN BY:
ROZ KAVENEY
guardian.co.uk, Friday 25 May 2012 12.07 BST
The banning of trans people from RadFem2012 is just one of
the disturbing aspects of this monolithic conference
Twitter has been flooded with controversy for the last week
about the RadFem2012 conference, currently booked into the Conway Hall, which
announced its membership as restricted to "women born women and living as
women" (it originally said "biological women", but that got
changed after much mockery). This disturbed the trans community, which it is
meant to exclude, but also those feminists who regard trans-exclusion as
something other than radical.
To be clear, I know no trans women, still less trans men,
who want to spend time in a space organized by people who slander us. However,
one of the main speakers at the conference is Sheila Jeffreys, who has a
forthcoming book critiquing trans medical care. In much of her earlier writing
(see, for example, page 71 of this journal), she calls for "transsexualism"
to be declared a human rights violation and then surgery banned by
international law, so it's fairly clear that we have an interest in the debate.
What Jeffreys proposes has, of course, other implications for all women – the
Vatican would love to make similar declarations about reproductive freedom.
There is also, more importantly, the question of whether
what Jeffreys and her supporters say about trans people constitutes hate
speech. As of two days ago, the Conway Hall expressed their concerns about the
legality of trans exclusion, and about hate speech, to the conference
organisers.
One of the problems with the Internet is that it is possible
for people to lock themselves further and further into a restricted mind set
where they hear no other voices. On the other hand, it makes it possible for
those with a strong stomach to overturn every stone and find out just what
people are saying and thinking. It's clear that Jeffreys and her supporters are
very hurt and disappointed that so many younger women don't agree with her –
Jeffreys blames the corrupting influence of post-modernism and queer theory;
"trans-critical" lawyer Cath Brennan - who uses Twitter to deride
trans people's experiences and mock non-trans feminists who are their allies -
is also a RadFem2012 attendee.
Of course, the trans issue is only one aspect of the
conference. Its mission statement makes it clear that this is a
"female-only, activism-focused conference with a radical feminist
agenda". Space will not be given to anti-feminist sentiments, which is
arguably another way of saying that, on most crucial issues, the party line is
predetermined and that any dissent from correct "radical feminist"
thinking will be stigmatised and driven out. Jeffreys makes it clear in many of
her writings that post-modernism and queer theory are the enemy, and that
piercing, tattooing, BDSM and role play are all pollutions of a feminism that
is nothing to do with choice or preference, everything to do with commitment.
Indeed, the Radical Feminist Hub, to which she contributes regularly, links to
resources arguing that what it calls "penis-in-vagina" sex is a bad
idea, from which women should choose to refrain.
There are many debates within feminism, and the women's
movement ought not to be a monolith of orthodoxy. There are, for example,
legitimate arguments on both sides of discussion of sex work – whether the
stress should be placed on prohibition or harm reduction, say. But such a
debate will not be allowed at RadFem2012. I hate to say this of other feminists,
but aspects of their feminism – the anti-intellectualism, emphasis on innate
knowledge, fetishisation of tiny ideological differences, heresy hunting,
conspiracy theories, rhetorical use of images of disgust, talk of stabs in the
back and romantic apocalypticism – smack less of feminism than of a cult.
18 Jul 2012
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