From a Sadist to a Masochist

SADIST

I'd never hurt you with the intention

Of bringing you any form of harm.

I inflict this pain upon your flesh

With purpose, integrity, and love.

With great patience and great care

I present my tools before you.

A whip here, a flog there,

All to bring you to that state

Of ecstasy,

Of catharsis.

I bring this pain to heal

Not just for you, but me as well.

Because I'd be lying if I said

I do this with no story to tell.

Falling into rhythm,

My striking is now heavy,

And those long sought tears

Are now streaming down your face.

I'm happy I could bring you here,

I'm happy you have taught me

That to hurt, in all forms, is human

And that pain can be used as a tool

To be intimate,

To heal.

~ Nero Knight

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An online shop where one can buy #BDSM Christmas Cards? Wonderful

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What went on at the #pornProtest

We Went to Today's Pro-BDSM Facesitting Protest in Westminster | VICE | United Kingdom


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Mass ‘face-sitting’ planned to protest UK porn laws: #PornProtest

I WILL BE ATTENDING, SO, IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO JOIN ME, GET IN TOUCH

That’s one way to get your government to shut up.

A mass “face-sitting” demonstration is being planned in London to protest a new set of porn laws in the UK.

Hundreds are expected to gather on Friday outside Parliament, where demonstrators will simulate sex acts with each other and sing along to Monty Python’s “Sit On My Face.”

The #PornProtest is a response to a new set of restrictions placed on pornography filmed and produced inside the UK. (The laws do not affect what programming UK citizens choose to watch.)

As of Dec. 1, strangulation, whipping and face-sitting were banned on the grounds that they were “potentially life-threatening.”

Charlotte Rose, the protest organizer and Britain’s 2013 Sex Worker of the Year, told Buzzfeed that the restrictions are outrageous. “How is it perfectly okay for a man to choke a woman with his penis in her mouth, yet we can’t enjoy cunnilingus through face-sitting?”

A host of other sex acts, including urination (or “water sports”) and spanking, were also banned.

The law appears to censor specifically the BDSM genre, and has been criticized for being sexist. “Personal liberty is what we are fighting for on Friday,” Rose told London 24.

The protest will include serious speeches from various organizations, with the face-sitting taking place at the end. “It’s just a bit of ridiculous fun to show the ridiculousness of these laws,” Rose told the Telegraph.

In order to calm concerns that face-sitting is “life-threatening,” Rose joked on the protest’s Facebook page that there will be “facial color charts for health and safety to ensure no one is being suffocated.”

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Anti-SM and pro-sex Feminism - What do you think?

Below is an extract from Emma Turley's BDSM psychology and sexuality thesis submitted to the University of Huddersfield - FULL THESIS HERE 

It describes very well the views of both 'anti-s&m feminists' and the 'pro-sex feminists'. Both sides make interesting points, although I do not agree with some or even understand how they came to their conclusions. This extract is a good place to start before moving on to what the 'anti-S&M feminists' actually feel regarding S&M.

Below is the new R18 section from The official BBFC Guidelines: 

By the way.... A child of 12 can go into a bookshop and BUY the 50 shades of Gray BOOK! 

The R18 category is a special and legally-restricted classification primarily for explicit works of consenting sex or strong fetish material involving adults. Films may only be shown to adults in specially licensed cinemas, and video works may be supplied to adults only in licensed sex shops. R18 video works may not be supplied by mail order.

The following content is not acceptable:

• material which is in breach of the criminal law, including material judged to be obscene under the

current interpretation of the Obscene Publications Act 1959 (see Annexe)

• material (including dialogue) likely to encourage an interest in sexually abusive activity which may include adults role-playing as non-adults

• the portrayal of sexual activity which involves real or apparent lack of consent. Any form of hysical restraint which prevents participants from indicating a withdrawal of consent

• the infliction of pain or acts which may cause lasting physical harm, whether real or (in a sexual context) simulated. Some allowance may be made for moderate, non-abusive, consensual activity

• penetration by any object associated with violence or likely to cause physical harm

• sexual threats, humiliation or abuse which do not form part of a clearly consenting role-playing  game. Strong physical or verbal abuse, even if consensual, is unlikely to be acceptable These Guidelines will be applied to the same standard regardless of sexual orientation of the activity portrayed.

British porn quietly censored......

Pornography produced in the UK was quietly censored today through an amendment to the 2003 Communications Act, and the measures appear to take aim at female pleasure.

The Audiovisual Media Services Regulations 2014 requires that video-on-demand (VoD) online porn now adhere to the same guidelines laid out for DVD sex shop-type porn by the British Board of Film Censors (BBFC).

Seemingly arbitrarily deciding what is nice sex and what is not nice sex, the board's ruling on 'content that is not acceptable' (p.23) effectively bans the following acts from being depicted by British pornography producers: