Donate your hard earned cash to a worthy cause!

I am perfectly aware that there are submissives out there whose wallets stay firmly shut and hidden away. Voyeurs, fakes, timewasters, the ones who think it is owed them, those who cannot afford even a £10 tribute. I have written a few articles on the 'Poor me' type subs before HERE and HERE.

So, since there are many unworthy subs out there who do not wish to tribute a Dominatrix, I am asking those subs who do not feel they should have to contribute to DONATE THEIR HARD EARNED CASH to a worthy cause. And, if those subs feel that even a worthy donation is beyond them....FUCK OFF and never ever return HERE!

Of course, to those WORTHY subs and slaves, who always try to please and help, then a donation to today's charity of choice from me, would be appreciated.

THE RSPCA

This is a unique animal welfare charity and the oldest welfare charity around.

The RSPCA were the first to introduce a law to protect animals and works hard to ensure that all animals can live a life free from pain and suffering. Through their campaigns they raise standards of care and awareness of issues for the animals who have no voice, push for laws to be changed, improving the welfare of animals on farms, in research labs, in the wild, in paddocks or in our homes and stand up to those who deliberately harm animals to send out a clear message - we will not tolerate animal abuse.

So, if you do nothing today, BE COUNTED by donating to a worthy cause. For those cheap subs and slaves out there, £2.00 is better than £0.00.

Donate to charity online - Online charity donation - RSPCA Donations - rspca.org.uk

Some Notes On Safety For Meeting Online and Off

Some Notes On Safety For Meeting Online and Off

Version 2.22

Author: Ambrosio ©

Why Be Concerned About Safety?: The example of John Edward Robinson Sr. a.k.a. "Slavemaster"

    

    - HELEN KENNEDY and CORKY SIEMASZKO

    "Harrowing Tale Of S&M Escape: Woman's call led cops to slay suspect"

    New York Daily News, June 6, 2000

The Texas woman who went on a kinky sex date with a suspected Kansas serial killer set up elaborate safety precautions that may have forced him to spare her life and ended his alleged 16-year murder spree, the Daily News has learned.

How A Country Dies - Is the world we know dying?

Originally posted at Economic Noise blog,

A country dies slowly.

Those living during the decline of Rome were likely unaware that anything was happening. The decline happened over a couple of hundred years. Anyone living during the decline only saw a small part of what was happening and likely never noticed it as anything other than ordinary.

Countries don’t have genetically determined life spans. Nor do they die quickly, unless the cataclysm of some great war does them in. Even in such extreme cases, there are usually warning signs, which are more obvious in hindsight than at the time.

50 Shades Of Grey (Matter): How Science Is Defying BDSM Stereotypes

It seems that no one is immune to E L James' controversial novel, 50 Shades of Grey. Television shows, magazines, popular blogs, even side conversations outside the school pick-up line are filled with talk about how hot it is -- and how it may be solely responsible for jump-starting the sex drives of bored housewives across the country. While I agree that some of the sex scenes are quite titillating, I find myself annoyed at the overt (BDSM) Bondage/Discipline/Dominance/Submission/Sadism/Masochism stereotypes advanced by the book. Especially since the latest scientific studies concerning sexual behavior do not back them up.

Power play, obedience and the sense of self for the submissive

In society, we are dependent on the systems which are in place and which sustain our lives - systems which give order to our lives. we are conditioned  and taught from an early age to be obedient to authority, be it a teacher, police officer or judge.

When we are faced with authority we have a tendency to yield easier due to conditioning. we accept we are part of a hierarchy and obedience is present within our social structures.

Master and Sissy Maxine

The house was dark when Sissy Maxine arrived home. Good, he thought, my sissy clitty has been tucked all day and needs release. So upon arrival Maxine darted upstairs to see if the latest email from Master arrived with her approved masturbation schedule. Before she could sit down to login, her Master appeared in the doorway and said he had a surprise for his special girl.

Maxine both startled and surprised tucked his pathetic excuse for manhood back in place and pulled his panties up and clipped his stockings back onto his garter belt and smoothed out the kick-pleated skirt. Before Maxine could slip on his favourite black pumps, Master said, no put something sexy on and meet me in the basement.

Consensual Sadistic Sex Practices are Comparable to Meditation Experiences

Sadomasochism is defined as sexual behavior that involves getting pleasure from causing or feeling pain. Previously thought to be a pathological practice, current research has found no evidence of harmful effects as a result of sadomasochism.

Scientists have found sadomasochism may actually lead to a meditative experience and that such practices are not entirely about sex. Two studies, one conducted by James Ambler of Northern Illinois University and the other by Brad Sagarin of Northern Illinois University, have found that these painful, sexual practices actually contribute to an altered state of consciousness.