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Verbal humiliation
Animal play—describing the submissive as a pet, dog, girl,
or bitch; making the submissive eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.
Verbal belittlement, with such words as slave, boy, girl,
missy, and pet.
Insults
Insults and verbal abuse, such as fat, ugly, stupid, and
worthless.
Degrading names, such as slut, shit, bitch, and whore.
Racial and ethnic slurs.
Slighting of body parts and behaviours, such as disparaging
or cruel references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia (including size),
buttocks, and slighting of such mannerisms as walking, responsiveness, and
standard of self-care.
Requirement to ask permission for everyday activities, such
as going to the toilet, spending money, and eating.
Small-breasts humiliation, in which scorn is addressed over
the supposed inadequacy of the woman's breasts or her inability to please a
lover, and her breasts become objects of derision.
Small Penis Humiliation
Small-penis humiliation, in which scorn is addressed over
the supposed inadequacy of the man's genitals or his inability to please a
lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
Forced repetition, such as the submissive's being obliged to
repeat commands that he or she has been given and to confirm them.
Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that
the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally
praising the dominant's physical and personality traits.
Mockery, derision, and ridicule.
Scolding of the type commonly reserved for children.
Physical humiliation
Ejaculating, spitting, and urinating on the submissive's
body, especially the face.
Servitude
Forced sexual degradation, including such acts as erotic
massage, cunnilingus, anglings, and fellatio.
Detailed accountability and control (micro-management) as to
time spent and activities done, including lists of jobs to do, precise
directions as to how the job is to be performed, and exactly how to act and
behave.
Specific rituals and affectations to be adopted. This
includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace
behind the dominant, speaking only when spoken to, kneeling or prostrating
oneself in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only after
others or on the floor, and low-status place to sleep.
Body worship, including such activities as kissing or
licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express
acknowledgment, subservience, shame, and even positive emotions (such as
happiness and excitement).
Deprivation of privacy, which may include the submissive's
never being able to leave the room in which the dominant is present without
permission.
The dominant watches while the submissive uses the toilet.
The submissive's being forbidden to leave the house or
'dungeon' in general for the duration of slavery or servitude, etc.
Discipline
Discipline (BDSM), including erotic spanking, slapping,
whipping, restraint, and other BDSM activities (such as cock-and-ball torture
(CBT)).
Dress code (BDSM): prescriptions and proscriptions of
clothing, even in public.
For women, a common example is being mandated to wear only
bikinis or lingerie.
For men, forced feminizing and cross-dressing.
Both sexes may be expected to go completely naked, with
decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, and cuffs as the
only exceptions.
Erotic Sexual Denial
Erotic sexual denial, including the use of a chastity belt.
Wearing of external signs of "ownership", such as
collars.
Public humiliation, in which the submissive's friends or
family, or strangers, are aware of or even witness the treatment.
Erotic Objectification
Erotic objectification, in which the submissive is used as
human furniture, such as a footstool.
Embarrassment.
Forced anal penetration, with dildos, anal plugs, and
similar objects.
Cuckolding, a mostly heterosexual fetish in which the
dominant woman has sex with a man outside of the relationship while the
submissive man may or may not be present. If the man is not present, he might
help her choose what clothes to wear when she meets the other man, or they
might get together afterward so she can tell him about it, either while having
sex or in addition to withholding sex. If the man is present during the
cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching.
The cuckolding may or may not be followed by sex between the couple. Another
variant of the cuckolding fetish is that a heterosexual couple fantasizes that
another man has already impregnated the woman.
The submissive's having to ask permission to orgasm during
sex or masturbation.
The submissive's being forced to wear a gag or restraints on
the body.
Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.
Feelings of humiliation are key to many of those engaged in
klismaphilia.
Feederism
Some sexual humiliation involves physical inflicting pain,
but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and
embarrassment.
Sexual role-playing can involve humiliation. For example,
one person might play the part of a dog because he or she enjoys being
mock-forced into it, and the top might emphasize the lowness of the bottom's
status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role of the dog
without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of an inner animal
or playful spirit.
