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FINANCIAL SLAVES ARE NOT SUGAR DADDIES - OR ARE THEY??

"I WENT TO A CLASS TO LEARN HOW TO FINANCIALLY DOMINATE MEN" By Alison Stevenson Nov 8 2013

Last week, I went to a financial domination class in downtown Los Angeles, hoping to learn valuable lessons on how to empower myself. After years of getting screwed over by the Man, I was ready to screw the Man myself. The class was at a place called the Den of Inequity, which is a BDSM club that also puts together workshops.

The hidden language if Kinksters

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BDSM, Personality and Mental Health

By Scott A. Mcgreal, www.psychologytoday.com View Original July 25th, 2013

A recent study on the psychological profile of BDSM (bondage and discipline, sadism-masochism) practitioners has attracted a great deal of media attention, with headlines proclaiming that “S&M practitioners are healthier and less neurotic than those with a tamer sex life.” Although BDSM has often in the past been thought to be associated with psychopathology, the authors of the study argued that practitioners are generally psychologically healthy, if not more so in some respects, compared to the general population. However, it should be noted that most of the apparent psychological benefits of being a practitioner applied to those in the dominant rather than the submissive role. Additionally, the study findings need to be treated with some caution because it is not clear that the comparison group is a good representation of the general population.

It takes a rare woman to be a dominatrix

6 Slightly Tongue in Cheek Rules for the Dating Game

I’m trying to post something on here once a week and Friday seems a good day to do so. But this Friday I’m stuck in business meetings all day so instead I’ll have to throw something together quickly and do it now for you my liebchens.

Men! Yes you over there; stop slouching and pay attention.

Do you have trouble dating the fairer sex? Do they look through you, over you and even past you whenever you try to engage them in conversation? Fear not my friend, help is at hand.

Now I’m no oil painting. I’m going more for the rugged good looks here, if rugged means like a piece of weathered concrete sitting in the weeds having decayed and fallen from a ruined building. I have no secret talents and no, well not the last time I checked anyway, spectacular parts of my anatomy guaranteed to make all women swoon at my feet. But I have lots of fantastically beautiful women as close friends. How? I shall swiftly pull aside the curtain of closely guarded secrets in the attraction game and reveal 6 startling nuggets of information to you.

1. Be confident in who you are. If you’re a grey-faced civil servant from the home counties then be sure in your heart and mind you’re the best darn civil servant there ever was.
2. Don’t boast, be self-deprecating. No one likes a boaster. Instead make fun of yourself a little.
3. Don’t be afraid. You’d be amazed to know the beautiful and sexy lady across the room just wants someone to talk to but all the men think, “She’ll never want to talk to me.” She probably will and what have you got to lose?
4. Have a sense of humour! Women are human too; they love to have a good laugh as much as anyone else. This is especially true if you can combine it with #2 above.
5. Be clean. No, not by telling politically correct anecdotes and jokes. I mean get a bath or a shower, and a shave too (those of us with beards are excused a complete shave as long as you tidy that fuzz to something neat instead of the abandoned bird’s nest you sport now). The ladies don't like a smelly guy and why should they? Would you like a smelly girl? (Don't answer that.)
6. Be yourself. We think we’re good at pretending to be someone else, someone interesting and exciting, but the girls will see right through that in a second. We’re all unique so celebrate that fact.

There’s a lot more I could tell you but I’d risk being thrown out of the cool guys club and we don’t want that to happen. But, if you book a session with the wonderfully sexy and beautiful Mistress Leyla let me know and I’ll reveal more… ;-)

© TawnyTrickster (All posts are original work unless stated otherwise)

Seven Deadly (to Men) Sins

You’d think in Biblical times it was a very male orientated world where us men were the masters of all we surveyed and the poor ladies were but chattels for our use and abuse. How wrong you are. The 7 sins here will amply demonstrate to even the most diehard feminist that life in the good old days was no fun for us men at all.

  

1. Eating cheeseburgers is a sin!

Surely cheeseburgers weren’t around in the days of the Old Testament? But here it is, written in black and white: Exodus 23:19, “The first of the fruits of thy land thou shalt bring into the house of the LORD thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk.”

So no putting cheese on top of, inside of or even underneath, the meat you sinner.

2. Hot dogs are out too!

Leviticus 11:8, on the subject of pigs, "You shall not eat of their flesh nor touch their carcasses; they are unclean to you."

What? No Walls bangers? The banning of the British sausage (or any other country’s porcine produce) is a sin in itself. I’m a self-confessed sossie lover in case you hadn’t guessed.

 3. An all-time top-ten male fantasy is verboten!

Come on guys, we’ve all seen a mother and her daughter and thought to ourselves, “Mmmmm…. Nice…  The two together… if only…” 

Don’t. It’s a terrible sin as told to us in Leviticus 11:8, “Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, neither shalt thou take her son's daughter, or her daughter's daughter, to uncover her nakedness; for they are her near kinswomen: it is wickedness.”

4. Leave the slaves alone!

Oh dear, another male fantasy bites the Biblical dust; yes my friends, no hanky-panky with a female slave. Our old friend Leviticus forbids it. 19:20, “If a man sleeps with a female slave who is promised to another man but who has not been ransomed or given her freedom, there must be due punishment. Yet they are not to be put to death, because she had not been freed.”

Darn it, my imaginary sex life feels very deflated right now. Think I’ll go get a haircut  to cheer me up. But wait…

5. Neat beards and pudding-bowl hairstyles are not allowed!

Surely you can’t be serious – and don’t call me Shirley. Tis true I’m afraid. You can guess who made this one up can’t you? Leviticus 19:27, "You shall not round off the side-growth of your heads nor harm the edges of your beard."

Ah, hirsuteness in the head department is required then. I’ll be throwing out my clippers and going for the Catweasel look from now on. At least it won’t cover any tattoos.

6. Tattoos now a no-no! And knife play is a sin too!

This is starting to get ridiculous. Where on earth does the Bible ban tattoos? I’ll give you one guess: Leviticus 19:28, "You shall not make any cuts in your body for the dead nor make any tattoo marks on yourselves: I am the Lord."

What’s a guy to do? I shall put my vast intellect to use in reasoning out the answer but in the meantime there is still one male fantasy left isn’t there?

7. Definitely no lesbian action!

We’ve moved on to the New Testament but life doesn’t get any better. Romans 1:27, “And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.” Which means, in modern English, no rumpy-pumpy or any other sexual girl-on-girl shenanigans allowed.